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May 29, 2025

How to prioritize tasks when you have ADHD

When everything feels important, prioritizing with ADHD can feel like an impossible puzzle. The right tools can make it easier to start.

Beaux Miebach

Beaux is Tiimo’s Inclusion and Belonging Lead, a queer AuDHD leader designing systems where accessibility and intersectionality come first.

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For many ADHD’ers, one of the hardest parts of getting something done is knowing where to begin. You might open your to-do list and instantly feel overwhelmed, unsure which task to start with or how long anything will take. Sometimes the pressure to decide becomes so intense that even the smallest task can feel impossible to start.

This kind of mental freeze is often known as ADHD paralysis. It happens when executive functioning becomes overloaded and the brain struggles to manage too many demands at once. When you are trying to organize, plan, sort through options, and take action, all while dealing with stress or fatigue, even the simplest decision can feel like too much. The result is often avoidance, not because you are unwilling, but because your brain has hit capacity.

What helps in these moments is not more pressure, but more structure. With the right tools, prioritization can shift from something draining to something that supports how your brain actually works.

Step 1: Braindump into your to-do list

Trying to prioritize before you have written things down is like trying to sort laundry while it is still in the basket. The first step is getting everything out of your head. This is where a digital to-do list, like the one in Tiimo, becomes essential.

You do not need to organize yet. Just list every task or thought that is taking up space, whether it is answering an email, scheduling an appointment, or refilling your prescription. Do not worry about what is big or small, what matters is creating one place to hold it all.

This simple step can reduce cognitive load immediately. When your brain no longer has to hold every detail, you create space to begin sorting through what is actually important.

Step 2: Use priority tools to find your starting point

Once your tasks are visible, the next step is figuring out what needs your attention first. For ADHD brains, this is where things often break down. Time feels fuzzy. Urgency and importance blur together. Emotional weight can outweigh practical needs.

To make this easier, you have a few different options depending on how much structure or support you want.

Option 1: Prioritize with Tiimo’s new priority grouping feature

If sorting tasks feels overwhelming, Tiimo’s new priority grouping feature can help lighten the load. With one tap, it organizes your to-do list into priority-based sections, so you can quickly see what is most important and where to begin.

Just click Prioritize at the top of your to-do list, and Tiimo will group your tasks by urgency. It will not make decisions for you, but it gives you a clearer structure to work from, without the pressure of figuring it all out on your own.

From there, you have options. You can keep the grouped list as is for more flexibility, or begin scheduling tasks into your day using Tiimo’s visual planner. For anyone who benefits from time blocking, this combo can reduce decision fatigue and support more intentional pacing without needing to plan every detail upfront.

On days when executive functioning feels low, having a pre-sorted list and a visual way to map it out can make the difference between spiraling and starting. Tiimo will not replace your thinking, but it is here to support it.

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Option 2: Manual prioritization using the Eisenhower Matrix

If you want more structure but don't want to rely on instinct or urgency alone, the Eisenhower Matrix can be a helpful way to sort your tasks. It is a simple, four-part framework that helps you figure out what actually matters and what can wait.

You start by asking two questions about each task: Is it urgent? Is it important?

From there, tasks fall into one of four categories:

  • Do first: Tasks that are both urgent and important. These usually come with clear deadlines or consequences and need your attention right away.
  • Schedule: Tasks that are important but not time-sensitive. These support your long-term goals or wellbeing and are worth protecting time for, even if they do not feel urgent.
  • Delegate or delay: Tasks that feel urgent because of external pressure, but do not really need your focus. If they can be postponed, automated, or shared, this is where they belong.
  • Let go or label as rest: Tasks that are not urgent or important. Some are distractions, others are a valid part of recovery. Either way, naming them helps you be intentional.

This approach reduces emotional decision-making and offers a clearer place to start, especially when everything feels equally pressing. You can easily recreate the matrix inside your Tiimo to-do list using tags, color codes, or grouped categories.

Step 3: Focus on getting started, not finishing everything

Even with a clear list and sorted priorities, many ADHD’ers still find it hard to begin. This difficulty, known as task initiation , is an executive functioning skill that often goes unnoticed. Knowing what needs to be done is not always enough. Your brain might still freeze, especially when a task feels boring, difficult, or emotionally heavy.

Rather than trying to push through, it can help to work with your brain’s need for dopamine. Start with the smallest possible action, like opening the app or writing the first sentence of an email. Using Tiimo’s visual focus timer to create a short, time-limited window of five or ten minutes can reduce pressure and make it easier to begin.

Breaking tasks into smaller steps and adding them to your list can help make big tasks feel more manageable. And sometimes, pairing the task with a supportive routine or working alongside someone in a shared space, also known as body doubling, can give you the grounding you need to get started.

How AI planning can ease the mental load of prioritizing

Side-by-side view of a smartphone screen showing Tiimo’s to-do list before and after using AI prioritization, with tasks sorted into high, medium, and low urgency categories.
Tiimo’s priority grouping helps you see what matters most, fast

Prioritizing tasks takes more energy than it seems, especially for ADHD’ers. The effort is often constant and invisible, like managing urgency, holding context, and trying to stay focused while your attention is pulled in different directions.

This is where the right tools can make a meaningful difference. Tiimo’s priority grouping feature helps turn a scattered to-do list into a clearer, more structured overview. It does not decide for you or dictate what comes next, but it reduces the need to mentally reshuffle your list every time you look at it, making it easier to see what matters most.

By organizing your tasks into grouped sections, it eases the pressure of deciding where to begin. You stay in control, but the next step feels more within reach, and that sense of clarity can be enough to get started.

Prioritizing doesn’t have to feel impossible

If prioritization has felt impossible, it might be because you have been trying to plan with tools that do not support how your brain actually works. ADHD brains often benefit from more structure at the start of the day, not added pressure once things are already in motion.

One of the most helpful ways to begin is by getting everything out of your head. A full braindump into your to-do list can quiet the mental noise and give you something concrete to work with. From there, you can choose a method that fits your needs, whether that means manually organizing your tasks using the Eisenhower Matrix or using Tiimo’s priority grouping to sort your list into clearer, more manageable sections.

If you are feeling stuck, try not to focus on finishing the entire list. Instead, look for one small and meaningful place to start. Progress does not come from forcing your way through. It comes from having a clear step forward and the flexibility to move at your own pace.

May 29, 2025

How to prioritize tasks when you have ADHD

When everything feels important, prioritizing with ADHD can feel like an impossible puzzle. The right tools can make it easier to start.

Beaux Miebach

Beaux is Tiimo’s Inclusion and Belonging Lead, a queer AuDHD leader designing systems where accessibility and intersectionality come first.

Meet the author
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For many ADHD’ers, one of the hardest parts of getting something done is knowing where to begin. You might open your to-do list and instantly feel overwhelmed, unsure which task to start with or how long anything will take. Sometimes the pressure to decide becomes so intense that even the smallest task can feel impossible to start.

This kind of mental freeze is often known as ADHD paralysis. It happens when executive functioning becomes overloaded and the brain struggles to manage too many demands at once. When you are trying to organize, plan, sort through options, and take action, all while dealing with stress or fatigue, even the simplest decision can feel like too much. The result is often avoidance, not because you are unwilling, but because your brain has hit capacity.

What helps in these moments is not more pressure, but more structure. With the right tools, prioritization can shift from something draining to something that supports how your brain actually works.

Step 1: Braindump into your to-do list

Trying to prioritize before you have written things down is like trying to sort laundry while it is still in the basket. The first step is getting everything out of your head. This is where a digital to-do list, like the one in Tiimo, becomes essential.

You do not need to organize yet. Just list every task or thought that is taking up space, whether it is answering an email, scheduling an appointment, or refilling your prescription. Do not worry about what is big or small, what matters is creating one place to hold it all.

This simple step can reduce cognitive load immediately. When your brain no longer has to hold every detail, you create space to begin sorting through what is actually important.

Step 2: Use priority tools to find your starting point

Once your tasks are visible, the next step is figuring out what needs your attention first. For ADHD brains, this is where things often break down. Time feels fuzzy. Urgency and importance blur together. Emotional weight can outweigh practical needs.

To make this easier, you have a few different options depending on how much structure or support you want.

Option 1: Prioritize with Tiimo’s new priority grouping feature

If sorting tasks feels overwhelming, Tiimo’s new priority grouping feature can help lighten the load. With one tap, it organizes your to-do list into priority-based sections, so you can quickly see what is most important and where to begin.

Just click Prioritize at the top of your to-do list, and Tiimo will group your tasks by urgency. It will not make decisions for you, but it gives you a clearer structure to work from, without the pressure of figuring it all out on your own.

From there, you have options. You can keep the grouped list as is for more flexibility, or begin scheduling tasks into your day using Tiimo’s visual planner. For anyone who benefits from time blocking, this combo can reduce decision fatigue and support more intentional pacing without needing to plan every detail upfront.

On days when executive functioning feels low, having a pre-sorted list and a visual way to map it out can make the difference between spiraling and starting. Tiimo will not replace your thinking, but it is here to support it.

Planning doesn’t have to feel impossible

Start your 7-day free trial and explore tools that actually support your focus, time, and follow-through.

Apple logo
Get started on App Store
Google logo
Get started on Google Play

Option 2: Manual prioritization using the Eisenhower Matrix

If you want more structure but don't want to rely on instinct or urgency alone, the Eisenhower Matrix can be a helpful way to sort your tasks. It is a simple, four-part framework that helps you figure out what actually matters and what can wait.

You start by asking two questions about each task: Is it urgent? Is it important?

From there, tasks fall into one of four categories:

  • Do first: Tasks that are both urgent and important. These usually come with clear deadlines or consequences and need your attention right away.
  • Schedule: Tasks that are important but not time-sensitive. These support your long-term goals or wellbeing and are worth protecting time for, even if they do not feel urgent.
  • Delegate or delay: Tasks that feel urgent because of external pressure, but do not really need your focus. If they can be postponed, automated, or shared, this is where they belong.
  • Let go or label as rest: Tasks that are not urgent or important. Some are distractions, others are a valid part of recovery. Either way, naming them helps you be intentional.

This approach reduces emotional decision-making and offers a clearer place to start, especially when everything feels equally pressing. You can easily recreate the matrix inside your Tiimo to-do list using tags, color codes, or grouped categories.

Step 3: Focus on getting started, not finishing everything

Even with a clear list and sorted priorities, many ADHD’ers still find it hard to begin. This difficulty, known as task initiation , is an executive functioning skill that often goes unnoticed. Knowing what needs to be done is not always enough. Your brain might still freeze, especially when a task feels boring, difficult, or emotionally heavy.

Rather than trying to push through, it can help to work with your brain’s need for dopamine. Start with the smallest possible action, like opening the app or writing the first sentence of an email. Using Tiimo’s visual focus timer to create a short, time-limited window of five or ten minutes can reduce pressure and make it easier to begin.

Breaking tasks into smaller steps and adding them to your list can help make big tasks feel more manageable. And sometimes, pairing the task with a supportive routine or working alongside someone in a shared space, also known as body doubling, can give you the grounding you need to get started.

How AI planning can ease the mental load of prioritizing

Side-by-side view of a smartphone screen showing Tiimo’s to-do list before and after using AI prioritization, with tasks sorted into high, medium, and low urgency categories.
Tiimo’s priority grouping helps you see what matters most, fast

Prioritizing tasks takes more energy than it seems, especially for ADHD’ers. The effort is often constant and invisible, like managing urgency, holding context, and trying to stay focused while your attention is pulled in different directions.

This is where the right tools can make a meaningful difference. Tiimo’s priority grouping feature helps turn a scattered to-do list into a clearer, more structured overview. It does not decide for you or dictate what comes next, but it reduces the need to mentally reshuffle your list every time you look at it, making it easier to see what matters most.

By organizing your tasks into grouped sections, it eases the pressure of deciding where to begin. You stay in control, but the next step feels more within reach, and that sense of clarity can be enough to get started.

Prioritizing doesn’t have to feel impossible

If prioritization has felt impossible, it might be because you have been trying to plan with tools that do not support how your brain actually works. ADHD brains often benefit from more structure at the start of the day, not added pressure once things are already in motion.

One of the most helpful ways to begin is by getting everything out of your head. A full braindump into your to-do list can quiet the mental noise and give you something concrete to work with. From there, you can choose a method that fits your needs, whether that means manually organizing your tasks using the Eisenhower Matrix or using Tiimo’s priority grouping to sort your list into clearer, more manageable sections.

If you are feeling stuck, try not to focus on finishing the entire list. Instead, look for one small and meaningful place to start. Progress does not come from forcing your way through. It comes from having a clear step forward and the flexibility to move at your own pace.

How to prioritize tasks when you have ADHD
May 29, 2025

How to prioritize tasks when you have ADHD

When everything feels important, prioritizing with ADHD can feel like an impossible puzzle. The right tools can make it easier to start.

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For many ADHD’ers, one of the hardest parts of getting something done is knowing where to begin. You might open your to-do list and instantly feel overwhelmed, unsure which task to start with or how long anything will take. Sometimes the pressure to decide becomes so intense that even the smallest task can feel impossible to start.

This kind of mental freeze is often known as ADHD paralysis. It happens when executive functioning becomes overloaded and the brain struggles to manage too many demands at once. When you are trying to organize, plan, sort through options, and take action, all while dealing with stress or fatigue, even the simplest decision can feel like too much. The result is often avoidance, not because you are unwilling, but because your brain has hit capacity.

What helps in these moments is not more pressure, but more structure. With the right tools, prioritization can shift from something draining to something that supports how your brain actually works.

Step 1: Braindump into your to-do list

Trying to prioritize before you have written things down is like trying to sort laundry while it is still in the basket. The first step is getting everything out of your head. This is where a digital to-do list, like the one in Tiimo, becomes essential.

You do not need to organize yet. Just list every task or thought that is taking up space, whether it is answering an email, scheduling an appointment, or refilling your prescription. Do not worry about what is big or small, what matters is creating one place to hold it all.

This simple step can reduce cognitive load immediately. When your brain no longer has to hold every detail, you create space to begin sorting through what is actually important.

Step 2: Use priority tools to find your starting point

Once your tasks are visible, the next step is figuring out what needs your attention first. For ADHD brains, this is where things often break down. Time feels fuzzy. Urgency and importance blur together. Emotional weight can outweigh practical needs.

To make this easier, you have a few different options depending on how much structure or support you want.

Option 1: Prioritize with Tiimo’s new priority grouping feature

If sorting tasks feels overwhelming, Tiimo’s new priority grouping feature can help lighten the load. With one tap, it organizes your to-do list into priority-based sections, so you can quickly see what is most important and where to begin.

Just click Prioritize at the top of your to-do list, and Tiimo will group your tasks by urgency. It will not make decisions for you, but it gives you a clearer structure to work from, without the pressure of figuring it all out on your own.

From there, you have options. You can keep the grouped list as is for more flexibility, or begin scheduling tasks into your day using Tiimo’s visual planner. For anyone who benefits from time blocking, this combo can reduce decision fatigue and support more intentional pacing without needing to plan every detail upfront.

On days when executive functioning feels low, having a pre-sorted list and a visual way to map it out can make the difference between spiraling and starting. Tiimo will not replace your thinking, but it is here to support it.

Option 2: Manual prioritization using the Eisenhower Matrix

If you want more structure but don't want to rely on instinct or urgency alone, the Eisenhower Matrix can be a helpful way to sort your tasks. It is a simple, four-part framework that helps you figure out what actually matters and what can wait.

You start by asking two questions about each task: Is it urgent? Is it important?

From there, tasks fall into one of four categories:

  • Do first: Tasks that are both urgent and important. These usually come with clear deadlines or consequences and need your attention right away.
  • Schedule: Tasks that are important but not time-sensitive. These support your long-term goals or wellbeing and are worth protecting time for, even if they do not feel urgent.
  • Delegate or delay: Tasks that feel urgent because of external pressure, but do not really need your focus. If they can be postponed, automated, or shared, this is where they belong.
  • Let go or label as rest: Tasks that are not urgent or important. Some are distractions, others are a valid part of recovery. Either way, naming them helps you be intentional.

This approach reduces emotional decision-making and offers a clearer place to start, especially when everything feels equally pressing. You can easily recreate the matrix inside your Tiimo to-do list using tags, color codes, or grouped categories.

Step 3: Focus on getting started, not finishing everything

Even with a clear list and sorted priorities, many ADHD’ers still find it hard to begin. This difficulty, known as task initiation , is an executive functioning skill that often goes unnoticed. Knowing what needs to be done is not always enough. Your brain might still freeze, especially when a task feels boring, difficult, or emotionally heavy.

Rather than trying to push through, it can help to work with your brain’s need for dopamine. Start with the smallest possible action, like opening the app or writing the first sentence of an email. Using Tiimo’s visual focus timer to create a short, time-limited window of five or ten minutes can reduce pressure and make it easier to begin.

Breaking tasks into smaller steps and adding them to your list can help make big tasks feel more manageable. And sometimes, pairing the task with a supportive routine or working alongside someone in a shared space, also known as body doubling, can give you the grounding you need to get started.

How AI planning can ease the mental load of prioritizing

Side-by-side view of a smartphone screen showing Tiimo’s to-do list before and after using AI prioritization, with tasks sorted into high, medium, and low urgency categories.
Tiimo’s priority grouping helps you see what matters most, fast

Prioritizing tasks takes more energy than it seems, especially for ADHD’ers. The effort is often constant and invisible, like managing urgency, holding context, and trying to stay focused while your attention is pulled in different directions.

This is where the right tools can make a meaningful difference. Tiimo’s priority grouping feature helps turn a scattered to-do list into a clearer, more structured overview. It does not decide for you or dictate what comes next, but it reduces the need to mentally reshuffle your list every time you look at it, making it easier to see what matters most.

By organizing your tasks into grouped sections, it eases the pressure of deciding where to begin. You stay in control, but the next step feels more within reach, and that sense of clarity can be enough to get started.

Prioritizing doesn’t have to feel impossible

If prioritization has felt impossible, it might be because you have been trying to plan with tools that do not support how your brain actually works. ADHD brains often benefit from more structure at the start of the day, not added pressure once things are already in motion.

One of the most helpful ways to begin is by getting everything out of your head. A full braindump into your to-do list can quiet the mental noise and give you something concrete to work with. From there, you can choose a method that fits your needs, whether that means manually organizing your tasks using the Eisenhower Matrix or using Tiimo’s priority grouping to sort your list into clearer, more manageable sections.

If you are feeling stuck, try not to focus on finishing the entire list. Instead, look for one small and meaningful place to start. Progress does not come from forcing your way through. It comes from having a clear step forward and the flexibility to move at your own pace.

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